Let’s take a look back at the seminal date February 12, 2004. Just a month before, Gavin Newsom had been sworn in as Mayor of San Francisco for his first term. On that day in February, he ordered the clerk of the City and County of San Francisco to allow same-sex couples to get married. When news broke of his decision, he was flooded with a torrent of angry messages sent by people from around the world. He received and still receives death threats. Of course, Newsom also faced attacks from Republicans, but even more frustrating (and hypocritical), he was much maligned by his fellow Democrats.
Most of these Democratic politicians lacked the courage to publicly criticize him–why lose out on political contributions from the LGBT community and their allies? Instead, they did it behind closed doors, and through more subtle actions. Previously extended invitations to speak at events like the Democratic National Convention were rescinded, some elected officials even refused to be photographed with him.